I have asked myself and others, many times, what it is that prevents us from building a cozier, friendlier more flourishing and promising world. We are incredibly equipped to do that: we have our particular tools for reasoning; our capacity to communicate among ourselves with our bodies and our human language; and we possess biological equipment that allows us to learn and to develop unimaginable inventions and innovations. If you think about it, you could consider yourself a miraculous being.
And yet, we do not always seem to be using this potential to actively build a better world. Although there are statistics that show a progressive improvement of a civilized way of life since our pre-history, the unstopping political, racial, social, and economic conflicts and the massive domestic and personal violence at present makes me wonder: What is the matter?
I have received an answer to this question many times. I have been told that it is absolutely necessary to take into consideration the issue of human nature. Seemingly, human beings not only have the biological disposition for learning, but apparently we also have instinctive features like greed, violence, a lust for power, envy and resentment which are an essential part of our nature. My listening is that we are the way we are and we cannot change that. It’s a fact of life. Then, another question bursts forth: Should we accept these traits as THE essential aspects of human nature, traits that are fixed and immutable, unable to change?
My answer is “no”. Our potential of creativity, learning, sociability, collaboration, vision, knowledge and human language are also aspects of human nature. In fact, most of these are distinctly human traits, as opposed to instincts, which we share with the other animals. If we have this huge and creative potential it is our responsibility to use it fully in order to improve our world and our species. For this statement, I have been criticized as being naïve and a wishful thinker.
If you claim for acceptance of the status quo of our “unchanging nature”, accepting only the comfort of that which is known, you run the risk of stagnation. If you are not willing to train your attention and discipline in order to wholly use your human potential, then you are not living within the paradigm of human nature, so rich in possibilities, but in the paradigm of mammal nature, to which we also belong. All mammals have bodies, instincts, brains, sensations, and emotions, human beings included. And the Universe has provided us, humans, with the amazing tool of human language which allows us to learn, to create, and to learn from what we learn, constantly moving the boundary of what is possible.
Our human nature enables changes, growth, and development. Luckily, I am not alone in this way of understanding human nature, differentiating you and me from the rest of the animals. I invite you to open up to this way of looking at ourselves, and to invite many others to do so. One day we will live in a better environment and human nature will naturally be considered what it is: that which makes us human.
The coaching sessions with Sally have allowed me to broaden my perspective and enlarge my possibilities of action in the working environment. I am now much better at handling limiting emotions and also at observing and transforming certain deeply rooted beliefs that hindered my development.— Verónica Ortega, Psychologist and Coach, Santiago, February 2014
I went to Sally’s course expecting to acquire distinctions for my coaching and consulting work. I did and I also found a huge space for personal growth. My coaching sessions with Sally were incredible, and her treatment of management and organizations is first- class. If you want to go to a higher place in life and work, don’t miss her course!— Oscar Cáceres, President of Oscar Cáceres & Associates, Santiago, April 2012
Thanks to Sally’s devotion, her coaching skills and her empathy, I was able to significantly improve my own productivity and that of my collaborators.— Arnoldo Valdés, Business and Development Vicepresident, Electroandina Inc. Santiago, November 2008
I thank Sally from the bottom of my heart for the light that she gave me. Her eyes always showed her commitment to my growth. I thank her for creating a transformational space which is sweet and gracious, and, at the same time, ambitious.— Andrea Monaco, Development Manager MEGATONE, El Chaco, Argentina, December 2012
Sally surprises me in every session with her wide perspective on how to deal with problems, turning them into opportunities. With her support, I have been able to strengthen my own abilities and fully display them in order to fulfill my professional purposes.— Lorena Banchero, President of “IMPRONTA GEOFÍSICA”, Consultants in Mining Exploration, Santiago, January 2014
I can now say that I am a 2.0 version of myself. I wish I could find a more powerful expression than THANK YOU to express my deep gratitude for Sally and her coaching.— Paula Sucre, Doctor in Economic Analysis, Universidad de Valencia, Spain, Santiago, March 2012
Sally’s vast experience and her personal devotion to my learning during 2006-7 have borne fruits which last until today, allowing me to continually improve my capacity and skills to hold effective personal and professional conversations.— Mabel Farías, B.A. in Art, Actress, Workshops facilitator, Santiago, January 2014
Being guided by Sally through the paths and processes of coaching, experiencing her love, devotion, wisdom and patience, is something I will never forget. The learning spaces that she created will leave a strong trail in my coaching education. Thank you Sally, Master in the Art of Leadership!— Laura de Paul, Coach, Córdoba, Argentina, March 2012
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